Proverbs 18:24
“A man who has friends must himself be friendly,
But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.”

Friendship is one of the most important parts of life. We were not designed to live in isolation or face all the struggles of life alone. We have some wonderful examples of friendship in Scripture. We are told that when Jonathan met David, he loved him as his own soul. He expressed this love by taking his armor and giving it to David (1 Samuel 18:4). As the son of the king, this action showed he believed David was chosen, by God, to reign in the land. From that time forward, Jonathan lived to encourage David to be the man God had called him to be. His actions illustrate Paul’s words to to the Philippians.

Philippians 2:3
“Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.”

Barnabas, in the New Testament, is also a great example of friendship. When Saul of Tarsus first met Christ, no other Christian would have anything to do with him. The church basically thought his conversion was an elaborate ploy to get close to Christians, in order to imprison or kill them. It was Barnabas who risked it all and befriended Paul. After meeting with him and seeing he had, in fact, given his life to Christ, Barnabas stood up for Paul to the other church leaders (Acts 9:26-27). Later, Paul was given opportunity to serve the Lord alongside Barnabas.

Both of these examples reveal the benefit of godly friendships. All of us long to have someone in our lives who would act like a Barnabas or a Jonathan. Solomon gives a practical tip as to how to develop and keep godly friendships. He writes,

“A man who has friends must himself be friendly,
But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.”

If we desire friendship, we must be friendly. Instead of looking for someone who will come alongside and support us, we should be looking for those whom we can come alongside and support. One of the simplest ways to do this is at church. It is not uncommon for people to enter a church, sit by themselves, and leave without ever making contact with any other believers. After weeks and weeks of this, they may start to think the church is an unfriendly place, because no one has reached out and befriended them. While that may be true, it is equally true, they have not reached out to anyone else. One of the best ways to establish friendship, is to look for someone who is sitting alone and join them. Ask them if they want to grab a coffee or get a meal after church. I am not suggesting you use the church as a place to get a date, but as a place where you can establish godly friendships, which will help you walk with the Lord. instead of looking for someone to be the friend you need, look to be the friend someone else needs.

Pastor Jim

Questions for Proverbs 18 
1. In verses 6-8 we have speech that invites trouble and gossip. Here the fool is always the wellspring for trouble. He is the one who always stirs the pot of contention and mocking. When the tail bearer or whisperer consumes the choice morsels of gossip they become tasty bits and stimulate the desire for more. You can resist these tasty trifles by not opening the box. Do you find yourself listening to a gossip or gossiping yourself? 

2. Verse 10 gives us the security in the Lord’s name. The Lord is fully able to protect those of us who trust Him. He is described as a tower of strength. When you feel afraid, uncertain, alone, and weary do you seek refuge in the fortress of His name? 

3. Verse 11 deals with security in wealth. Wealthy people often assume that their wealth brings security. Psalm 49 teaches money cannot bring ultimate security. Where are you looking for ultimate security? Do you think it’s in uncertain riches or God who is always faithful? 

4. Verse 24 gives us the value of loyal friendship. It is better to have one good faithful friend than a number of unreliable ones. The world is full of people looking for that friend who sticks closer that a brother. That is a rare treasure. Are you longing for a true friend? If so, seek to become one. Ask the Lord to bring people into your life. Be challenged to be a true friend. 

Old Testament:
Micah 6- Complaints
Micah 7- I Will Arise

Proverbs 17:22
“A merry heart does good, like medicine,
But a broken spirit dries the bones”

Solomon is contrasting the physical effects of joy and sorrow. He explains that joy is like a medicine to the body, actually providing a healing element, while deep sorrow can negatively effect our health. Solomon is making this observation, not as a medical professional, but from watching others, as well as from his own personal experience. He came to realize that a joyful heart is much healthier and more productive than a broken one. I think we would all agree. If we had to choose, we would rather be merry than broken. The question is, “How do we avoid a broken spirit and gain a merry heart?”

Paul declared, the fruit of the Spirit is love and joy (Galatians 5:22). A merry heart is the bi-product of a life connected to Christ. Jesus said, when we abide in Him, we would bear fruit in our lives that remains (John 15:16). If we want a heart that is filled with joy and merriment, the first step is to receive Christ, and the next is to walk step by step with Him. The more we invest in our relationship with Christ, the more this joy will fill our lives, replacing sorrow and becoming in us, a well spring of life.

In one sense a broken spirit is important, even necessary for the believer.

Psalms 34:18
“The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart,
And saves such as have a contrite spirit.”

Here, the broken spirit refers to one who has realized his sins, and is coming to God for pardon. That is critical. Without being broken, we can never be saved. Solomon is speaking of another kind of brokenness, though. Not the brokenness caused by realizing we have sinned, but the brokenness caused by being in sin. Sin causes sorrow because it breaks fellowship with God. Jesus said He came to give us abundant life. The devil, on the other hand, came to rob us of that life. Whenever we choose to be involved in the things the Bible forbids, we are actually robbing ourselves of joy, and taking steps toward a broken spirit and dried up bones.

The closer we walk with Jesus, the more our hearts will be filled with the healing medicine of merriment.

Pastor Jim

Questions for Proverbs 17 
1. In order to purify gold and silver you must use intense heat. In our lives, the heat of trials purifies us. Peter tells us that these trials are only to test our faith and to show that it is strong and pure. Verse 3 tells us that what fire does for the metal, God does for the heart. Have you come to the realization that when tough times come your way that God wants to use those times to refine your faith and clean your heart of the dross? 

2. Verse 5 talks about speech that mocks the poor. Making fun of the less fortunate is one of the cruelest things we can do. Most people do it to make themselves feel good. There are those who mock others to give themselves a sense of superiority. Anyone who mocks the misfortunes of the poor is really mocking God because He made them. Have you in the past mocked the unfortunate? From this day forward stop and think before you put others down. Stop and think of who created them. 

3. Verse 9 talks about disregarding the faults of others. Were you ever in an argument and were tempted to bring something up from that person’s past? Love for that person will keep our mouth shut. Let’s face it that can be difficult at times. If we don’t, the Bible says that it separates close friends. 1 Corinthians 13 tells us that love doesn’t keep records of wrong doing. If you are having difficulty covering over the offenses of others, pray for God’s ability to forgive and forget the sins that people tell you. 

4. Verse 17 deals with loyalty in time of adversity. What kind of friend are you? The love of a true friend is strong and constant. In this verse the “friend and the brother” are equal. Have you experienced the fair weather friend? This is the one that sticks around when the relationship helps them but leaves when they’re not getting anything out of it? It’s one of the disappointments in life when someone professes to be your friend but when the chips are down you realize that their real name was Judas Iscariot or Absalom. Are you growing into the kind of friend the Bible encourages? 

5. Verse 22 shows us that our emotions can affect our health and God want us to have a merry heart. When we’re at church our fellowship should be filled with joy and fun. Are you cheerful and ready to welcome others? Are you being encouraging to others regardless of how you feel? According to this verse a merry heart is like pain relieving medicine to the bones. 

6. Verses 27-28 talk about keeping your mouth closed. If you have nothing worthwhile to say it’s always the best policy to keep quiet. The benefit of that is it allows you the blessing to learn to listen and then listen to learn. Are you in the habit of pausing and listening before you speak? 

Old Testament:
Micah 4- Peace On Earth
Micah 5- Standing Out

Proverbs 16:3
“Commit your works to the Lord, And your thoughts will be established.”

Paul referred to the believer as a soldier, and compared the Christian life to a battle ground. One of the reasons the Christian life is often difficult, is because we are fighting on two fronts. A large part of our battle is seeking to see others impacted for the Kingdom of God. We enter the arena to fight whenever we pray for the unsaved or the backslider. Scripture tells us our weapons are not carnal but they are mighty and able to pull down strongholds (2 Corinthians 10:4). The weapons we have been given are prayer, the Word of God and our personal testimony. When those are used together, we will find that we become effective in impacting others for the kingdom of God.

The other front on which the Christian engages in battle is within. We are told the devil shoots fiery darts into the mind of the Christian (Ephesians 6:16). The darts often take the form of fear, doubt, lust, envy, covetousness, pride or even self-loathing. If we are going to succeed in our walk with the Lord, we must win in the battlefield of the mind. Solomon’s insights here give us a tactical advantage.

“Commit your works to the Lord, And your thoughts will be established.”

Jesus explained that our actions will be produced by what is in our hearts (Matthew 15:17-19). Solomon adds, our actions will produce what goes on in our minds. If everyday, you choose to drive by the new car lot and stare at the cars on the showroom floor, it is no wonder you will have a great longing for a new car. You will find yourself unsatisfied with your current mode of transportation and preoccupied with how to get that new car. Choosing a different route to work, where you do not see the new cars everyday, will lessen the temptation. Wanting a new car is not necessarily sinful, but it illustrates the principle Solomon is presenting. If we are going to win the battle against temptations of the flesh, we must win the battle in the mind. If we are going to win the battle of the mind, we must make some changes in our actions. If we are constantly filling the mind with images that produce the desires of the flesh, we will never win that battle.

Let’s make sure that today we,

“Commit your works to the Lord, And your thoughts will be established.”

Pastor Jim

Questions for Proverbs 16 
1. Verse 2 is reminiscent of Proverbs 14:12. “There is a way which seems right to a man but the end thereof are the ways of death.” Have you ever heard somebody say, “I don’t need to be saved? I’m alright?” Perhaps that was you at a time in your life until you used God’s Word as a mirror. Then it revealed that things were not quite right. Are you filtering your plans and your ways through the Bible? Is your attitude pleasing to God? 

2. In verse 3 the verb commit literally means “roll.” In other words, to roll all of your burdens on the Lord. This word portrays complete dependence on God. There are some who give God temporary control of their lives only to take control back the moment things stop going the way they expect. Are you worried about tomorrow, next week, or the future? Roll it over on Him! 

3. Verse 9 tells us that God is the ultimate boss. He is sovereign and determines the outcome of our plans. This proverb is a contrast of what we plan and what actually happens. Guess what? God determines the latter. Remember that if your choice meets with approval, God will direct your steps to the desired goal. 

4. Verse 18 shows the consequences of pride. Pride leads inevitably to a downfall and arrogance is the first step down. If we think that our success was attributed to our own energy and effort, we fool ourselves. Everything we have is from a benevolent God. To avoid a fall you may ask someone you trust whether self-satisfaction has blinded you to warning signs. 

5. We all like to hear pleasant, comforting, and encouraging words. In verses 2-4, they are described as a “honey comb” which is sweet to the soul and health to the bones. The result of such speech is felt in the body and soul. Are you reading the bad news in the newspaper more than the good news of the Bible? Remember it’s better to say it with pleasant words instead of trying to say it with the help of FTD and Hallmark. 

6. Verses 26-30 form a group of verses about different types of troublemakers who disrupt community life. We have the hungry man, (hunger is not the best incentive) the worthless man, the perverse man, the violent man, and the wicked man. These types of people destroy close relationships. Solomon warns us to keep away from such villains. Are you finding yourself enticed or influenced by such people? 

7. The Hebrews believed that long life was a sign of God’s blessings. Therefore gray hair and old age were good. Proverbs 20:29 tells us that the young glory in their strength and gray hair the splendor of the old. Gray hair is not a sign of disgrace to be covered up by Grecian Formula. It is a crown of splendor. How are you dealing with older people? Are you treating them with respect? 

8. Verse 32 describes a human being who has his emotions under control. Our home life can be ruined by a person who loses control of his or her temper. Are you struggling to control your temper? Pray to the Lord to give you victory 

Old Testament:
Micah 1- Prophecy Fulfilled
Micah 3- Fully Charged

Proverbs 15:3
“The eyes of the Lord are in every place, keeping watch on the evil and the good.”

I have always been fascinated by the comment Jesus made to Nathaniel when they first met; the Gospel of John records,

John 1:47-48
“Jesus saw Nathanael coming toward Him, and said of him, ‘Behold, an Israelite indeed, in whom is no deceit!’ Nathanael said to Him, ‘How do You know me?’ Jesus answered and said to him, ‘Before Philip called you, when you were under the fig tree, I saw you.’”

The possibilities are endless as to what Nathaniel may have been doing under that tree, but we know for sure, whether it was good or bad, God was watching and loved him, regardless.

I wonder, “How are you spending your time when it seems that no one is watching?” How might those times change if we kept in mind, the eyes of the Lord are always upon us?

Pastor Jim

Questions for Proverbs 15 
1. Verse 1 deal with the tongue. The way we answer another person will have an effect on the response. To turn away wrath and seek peace we should choose gentle words. Are you in the practice of maintaining the peace or do you find yourself raising your voice and using harsh words to trigger a response? 

2. Verse 3 tells us about God’s omniscience. Our lives are open books to God. The Lord knows everyone completely and this verse is an incentive for our conduct. As a Christian do you find great comfort in this fact that God sees you clearly? If you have yet to become a Christian, has this verse pricked your heart with concern for your eternal destiny? 

3. Verse 10 speaks of the necessity of discipline. Some people hate to be told they are wrong and there are others that will not accept any kind of advice. This proverb is clear that discipline must be used for those who go astray. Are you one who does not like to receive correction? 

4. Verse 14 shows us that the wise person has a strong desire to discover knowledge. What we nourish our mind with is just as important as what we feed our bodies with. Are you choosing to feed on Godly books, music, and films? Do you find yourself compromising to the world? 

5. Verse 16-17 stress that spiritual things are far better than material wealth. Loving relationships are more desirable than a great supper where there is hatred. All too often wealth replaces love in a family. How is your family life? Is it loving with a fear of the Lord? Do you find that your fridge is full of filet mignon and there is hatred? God says a humble meal with love is the best. 

6. Verse 22 shows us the value of advice. This is a general observation on the personal and national level. Are you surrounding yourself with good Godly counselors? Are they directing you to God’s Word? He is the mighty counselor. 

7. Verse 33 begins with “the fear of the Lord.” If we humbly submit in faith to the Lord it will bring wisdom and honor. The most important lesson here is for us to learn to come with humility to learn of God. We all need that lesson. 

Old Testament:
Jonah 3- Salvation
Jonah 4- Who Cares

Proverbs 14:4
“Where no oxen are, the trough is clean;
But much increase comes by the strength of an ox.”

A few years back, when we were looking to purchase a home, my wife and I spent our days off going to open houses and visiting model homes. It was easy to tell the difference between the two. The model homes were immaculate. The decor was thematic, the furniture and carpets unstained, and the walls were noticeably unmarked by crayon, ink pen or dirty hand prints. At first glance, I would feel envious. Our house looked nothing like that. Our carpets showed evidence of four boys who were incapable of wiping the mud off their feet before entering the house. The walls bore the evidence that they had not, in fact, washed their hands before or after dinner, and the couches proved that cups with lids are no guarantee against things being spilled. I would look at the model and think to myself, “Wow, wouldn’t it be nice if we could keep our house looking like this.” However, after a little consideration, I realized, there was an explanation as to why the model home was so clean and our house, well, not so much. No one lived in the model. It was a shell, four walls that contained furnishings, but no life.

Solomon is expressing that same thought in another way. Simply put, he is declaring that at times, life is messy. If we try to avoid the mess, we may, in turn, miss out on living. Many of us work very hard to be comfortable, and we avoid anything that disturbs that comfort. We neglect getting more involved in church, because it may mess up the kids schedule, or we fail to commit to serving the Lord, because it will conflict with our comforts. Our goal should not be living in comfort, but living to please the Lord. There are times when God will ask us to do things which will disturb our routine, or force us outside of our comfort zone. Part of His reasoning for doing this, is our personal growth. It is in those times when we are most uncomfortable, that we look to the Lord the most. When we feel like we can handle things, we press on in our own capacities. It is when we realize we have no experience to lean on, that we find ourselves crying out to the Lord.

Keep in mind, that while stepping out and serving Christ may make life a bit messy, there is great, even eternal value in everything that is done faithfully unto the Lord.

Pastor Jim

Questions for Proverbs 14 
1. Verse 2 is a contrast between those who fear the Lord and those who despise him. The difference is in the conduct. Reverence for God motivates and characterizes a walk well pleasing to God. On the other hand, perverse ways are sinful ways. Those who neither fear nor love the Lord make no effort to exercise and demonstrate self-control. Is your walk characterized by love and reverence for the Father? Is there sin that has to be removed from your life? 

2. In verse 6 we meet the mocker. This is someone who scoffs at every word of instruction or advice. These people will never find wisdom because they don’t seek it seriously. Wisdom is found in God’s Word. Biblical wisdom is how much you have come to agree with God and His Word. Are you looking at life from God’s perspective? Wisdom comes to us when we apply God’s Word to our lives and when we seek mature Godly Christians as counselors. Are you finding yourself at times scoffing at His Word? 

3. In verse 12, we have the destructive nature of worldliness. The King James Version of the second half of this proverb says, “But the end thereof are the ways of death.” The plural “ways” indicate that there are many paths that lead to death as compared to one way that leads to life everlasting. The way that seems right to a man is his own way. We need to trust the Lord Jesus Christ. He has been down the path and knows where it leads. Read John 14:6. When you look at the path you are on, where is it leading you? 

4. The backslider in verse 14 has one desire and that is to live life contrary to the Word of God. He is indifferent to questions of ethics or any thought of accountability to God. The Bible says that a man will reap what he sows. On the other hand, the good man is satisfied with his ways because they are the Lord’s ways. Are you struggling with the lust of the world and not considering the recklessness of the foolish? 

5. Verse 20 deals with popularity and favoritism. James tells us to beware of personal favoritism because before God we all stand on one level. It is a reality of this world that possessions determine popularity. The poor are shunned and the rich have many lovers. Are you easily impressed by status wealth or fame? Are you partial to the “haves” while ignoring the “have nots?” 

6. Verse 21 tells us that we shouldn’t assume some superior status and look down upon a neighbor regardless of his destitute condition. Remember God has chosen the poor (James 2:5) and it’s a sin to despise them. The man who has mercy on them is blessed in the act. We can’t sin against a neighbor and enjoy God’s blessings. Let us never forget that our Lord Jesus came into this world as a poor man. He was penniless! How do you feel toward those who can do nothing for you in return? Do you do something for them? 

7. Verse 26 teaches that security is in the fear of the Lord. If we fear the Lord we will be obedient to His Word and in that brings strong confidence. The children mentioned here are the God-fearing children. Exodus 20 tells us that the children will reap the benefits of their righteous parents if they love the Lord. If fear gives the parents security in the Lord, it will be a place of safety for their children. For you who are parents: Do you have reverent fear for the Lord? Do your children know that you are under authority to the Lord Jesus Christ? Are your children learning to trust God by your example? 

8. Verse 29: Have you ever seen an out of control fire? That’s what a nasty, quick temper looks like. It can singe us and burn everyone else in its path. The Lord Jesus said, “Be angry and don’t sin.” Anger that divides causes bitterness and guilt. Anger can also be a legitimate reaction to injustice and sin. When anger rises in us we need to look for the cause. Are you reacting to an evil situation that you are going to set right? Are you responding selfishly to a personal insult? 

9. Verse 31 deals with the treatment of the poor. The Lord has a special concern in His heart for them. How people treat the poor displays their faith in the creator. God insists that those who have been blessed materially should be generous with those who are needy. The Bible is clear about providing for the poor. God doesn’t make suggestions concerning their treatment. He commands us to honor them. (Leviticus 23:22, Deuteronomy 15:7-8, Psalm 113:5-9, Isaiah 58:7, 2 Corinthians 9:9) If God has blessed you materially are you being obedient to His Word? Are you one who oppresses the poor? Do you honor the Lord by having mercy on the needy? 

Old Testament:
Jonah 1- Unnecessary Suffering 
Jonah 2- How Much Longer

Proverbs 13:7
“There is one who makes himself rich, yet has nothing;
And one who makes himself poor, yet has great riches.”

Solomon is suggesting it is possible to have earthly possessions and yet to possess nothing of true value. At the same time, it is possible to have next to nothing, and have great wealth. He is not saying wealth is evil and poverty is good, but that within God’s economy, some things are of much greater value than others. The Bible teaches us there are three things that are eternal, and investments made in these areas will give a person lasting riches.

First off, God Himself is eternal. Before the universe existed, there was God. He is the un-caused cause that brought all other things into being. He is the source of all life, and the one who holds all things together. He is the one to whom we will give an account when our lives run their course. While it is not wrong to make capital investments and to store up for your family’s future, we must not do it at the expense of investing in a relationship with God. The most important investment we make is a decision to follow Jesus Christ.

Second, the Word of God is eternal. The writer of Hebrews explained that one day the heavens above us and the earth we stand upon, will be folded like a garment and replaced, but the Word of God will last forever (Hebrews 1:11-12). Every promise of God is eternal, and every investment of the Word of God in our lives, will bring eternal benefits. Often, the thing that keeps us from investing time in the Word, is the fact that we do not think it makes a difference. The reality is, when time has run its course, and the things of this life are a distant memory, we will still be reaping the benefits of our investments in the Word of God.

Finally, the Bible teaches us that the souls of men and women are eternal. God has done everything possible for each and every person to spend eternity with Him. He sent His Son to die for us, His Spirit to draw us, and His church to be an influence to win us. When we realize how much others matter to God, and we seek to influence them for eternity, we are making investments that will outlast time. The most important place where these investments are made is within the home.

There is nothing wrong with making earthly investments. There is nothing inherently wrong with riches, or with enjoying much of the pleasures that come with wealth. However, there are things of much greater value than stocks portfolios, profit margins and real estate holdings. The things that matter most, are the things that last forever. Don’t neglect to store up riches where they really matter.

Pastor Jim

Questions for Proverbs 13 
1. We know that our words can cut and destroy. James 3:5 tells us, “even so the tongue is a little member and boasts great things.” Another translation states, “So also the tongue is a small thing, but what enormous damage it can do.” The aim in verse 3 is to prevent rash talk and this reminder is appropriate for any age. Are you stopping and thinking before you speak? The old Arab proverb says, “Take heed that your tongue does not cut your throat.” 

2. Verse 2 teaches us not to trust in appearances and honesty is better than pretension. There are some people who may not be what they seem to be. Some who are poor pretend to be rich for social reasons. (Luke 12:21, Revelation 3:17) Some that are rich pretend to be poor. The miser lives to protect himself from requests for assistance or from possibly being robbed. Perhaps it is to conceal his wealth and to avoid responsibilities. God is calling us to be who we are, to be honest people, and unpretentious. Are you putting up a front to be somebody you are not? An empty display or a concealing of means can come to no good. 

3. Verse 10 tells us that those who are wise listen to advise rather than argue out of stubborn pride. Is it hard for you to say, “I was wrong,” or “I need advise? Every quarrel has pride as an ingredient. This type of pride has contempt for other’s opinions. Pride always means enmity. It is enmity to God. Are you open to the advice of others? Examine your life for pride. Ask for help when you need it and avoid strife. 

4. In verse 12, hope postponed makes the heart sick and earthly hope can be a very disappointing season of life. (Hoping for something that doesn’t come to pass.) Are you in a season of “hope deferred?” Be encouraged. Biblical hope is a confident expectation that what you hope is going to happen. Pastor Titus tells us to be looking for the blessed hope and glorious appearing of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ. We can live our life in anticipation of that promise of God. It gives us the proper perspective on material things and how we should be living our lives knowing that He could come at any time. 

5. We were created by God for His good pleasure. He knows us and loves us beyond our comprehension of love. It only makes sense to listen to ABBA Father and do what He says. But in verse 13, we have a definite contrast between obedience to God’s unfailing Word and rejecting it. If you were a brand new vehicle you would come with an owner’s manual to help you “run right.” If we fail to maintain regular preventive maintenance we will fail. Are you hearing from God everyday by reading His instructions to us? 

6. Verse 20 teaches us the result of associating with wise people or fools. Paul said, “Evil company corrupts good habits.” (1 Cor. 15:33) There is safety and growth in proper company. There is also a positive influence on those who spend time with wise men. On the other hand, the companion of the fool suffers harm and becomes like those whom he is hanging with. Take some time and pray to the Father and examine who is influencing you. Are you spending time with people you want to be like? 

7. In verse 24, parental love is displayed in disciplining the children responsibly. There is a balance between too lenient and too harsh. The Bible teaches corporal punishment whether the modern experts agree or not. The parent who spares his rod might think he is showing love. God calls it hatred. The parent that loves their children doesn’t condone bad behavior but disciplines them promptly. The balance comes when the child has room to grow while learning the limits. Are you afraid to discipline your children even though God himself says it is an act of love? 

Old Testament:
Obadiah 1- It’s All Mine

Proverbs 12:25
“Anxiety in the heart of man causes depression, but a good word makes it glad.”

Anxiety can be defined as an abnormal and overwhelming concern over the reality of a threat, and our inability to cope with it. Similar words would be care, concern, fear, nervousness or worry. Anxiety is usually accompanied by an inability to focus on other tasks, difficulty sleeping, and either no appetite or one that seems to rage out of control. Solomon observed that unchecked anxiety can lead to a much worse condition, that of all out depression. No doubt, life is filled with challenges greater than we can handle, which bring us to the brink of anxiety. Many of us may feel as though we have already slipped off that cliff. Fortunately, the Bible addresses the subject of anxiety and gives us some clear cures for our common worries.

Jesus told us not to worry, but to observe how our Heavenly Father cares for the birds of the air and the flowers of the fields (Matthew 6:26). He went on to explain that we are of much greater value to God than any other part of His creation, and He promises to meet our needs. The first step in curing common worries is to place your trust in the loving arms of God. Those who handle life’s challenges best, are those who have come to trust in the loving care of God. When all else fails, they remain calm because they know their lives are wrapped up in the arms of God.

Paul declared, instead of worrying about the challenges we are facing, we should pray. Worry does not have the ability to fix anything. In fact, it has been proven, worry can actually create physical problems. Jesus asked, “which of you by worrying can add a cubit to your stature?” (Luke 12:26) Worry does not help matters, but makes them worse. The clear alternatives to worry is to take my concerns to the Lord and allow Him to direct my steps.

Solomon adds an interesting step in curing worry. He reminds us of the value of a word carefully spoken. There are certain people who seem to have a gift for stirring up unwarranted concern, while others seem to be a calming voice of reason. We have all experienced times when a person opens their mouths and makes matters worse. The words that carry the ability to put gladness in the heart of the worrier, are the promises of God. In those times, when we are overwhelmed, we need to learn to cling to the promises of God.

Perhaps now would be a good time to set your worries aside and replace them with trust, by casting your cares upon the Lord, and filling your mind with His great and precious promises.

Pastor Jim

Questions for Proverbs 12 
As the previous chapter, this chapter is a collection of sometimes unrelated pearls of wisdom concerning the righteous/wise and the wicked/foolish. In particular, truth, speech, and diligence are important themes in this chapter. 
1. Verse 1 repeats an idea in Proverbs: the wise man is teachable and humble and loves to learn more of the things of God. Read 2Peter 3:18 and Proverbs 1:5. Is this your heart attitude when you study your bible, or do you have a “know-it-all” attitude? 

2. Read verse 4. How is your relationship with your spouse? Are you a blessing to them? Read Ephesians 5:21-33, and 1Peter 3:1-9 for instruction on being a wife and being a husband. 

3. Verses 2-3 and 5-8 speak of the stability and strength of the righteous and the instability of the wicked. How long can prosperity last for the wicked? 

4. Look at verse 9. Self-promotion is not looked on favorably by the Lord. Read James 4:10 and 1 Corinthians 4:7. Do you give the Lord honor and credit for all of the blessing and advantage in your life or do you brag/honor yourself? 

5. Read Proverbs 12:15. As people we tend to look at things from our own perspective and think that we are right. The book of Judges tells of a time in Israel’s history when men did what they thought was right without considering the things of God. Read Judges 21:5. Is Jesus the King who rules your life? Do you accept what He says as truth to be believed and obeyed? 

6. Verses 13, 18, 19, 22 all address our speech. Make a list of the consequences of using our mouths righteously and wickedly. 

7. Read verse 25. What is the result of worry/anxiety? What is an antidote for worry? Read Matthew 6:25-34 for good counsel for those who are anxious. 

Old Testament:
Amos 7-In The Gap
Amos 8- Your are Precious

Proverbs 11:17
“The merciful man does good for his own soul, but he who is cruel troubles his own flesh.”

Mercy is often defined as not getting what we deserve. While that is true, the word carries a greater meaning. It also means to show compassion and kindness to those who are in need or distressed. We see it evidenced in the life of Jesus. When He heard the leper calling out for Him, we read Jesus was moved with compassion, reached out His hand, touched the man, and cleansed him. Mercy stirred the heart of Jesus to touch the untouchable, and restore what leprosy had destroyed (Mark 1:40-41). When He felt a tug on His garment, He turned to see a woman who had been struggling with an illness for 12 years, without any hope of healing. Mercy stirred Him to heal her sickness, and reward her great faith (Luke 8:43). When He arrived on the scene of Lazarus’ funeral, and heard the wailing of his family and friends, mercy stirred the heart of Jesus, to weep with those who wept, and to intervene by raising Lazarus from the dead (John 11:1-17). Over and over, page after page, person after person, we see Jesus expressing His mercy, in compassion and kindness, to those in need. Nowhere, is this seen more clearly than in the cross. Our need was much greater than that of a woman with a blood disease, a man with leprosy, or even a family with a dead brother. Our need was caused by sin, and the only cure was the death of God. Jesus saw our condition, and bore the weight of all our sin, as He hung on Calvary’s cross. Mercy was extended as His blood was shed.

Mercy is something we are to receive and to spread. Solomon stated, it is the merciful man who does good for his own soul. Jesus said we are blessed when we are merciful. Just as Jesus looked for, and aided those in need, we should be looking for ways to express the mercy of God to others. Mercy is expressed in forgiveness. When we choose to forgive someone who has wronged us, and treat them as though they had never acted that way, we are expressing mercy. When we choose to be kind to someone, not because they have been kind to us, or in hopes of being rewarded, we are expressing mercy. When we go out of our way to show the love of Christ to others, whether it be in word or action, we are expressing mercy. This mercy will benefit the receiver and the giver alike. Those who receive mercy are learning something of the nature of God, and those giving it, are doing good to their own soul.

Pastor Jim

Questions for Proverbs 11 
As in the previous chapter, a variety of practical wisdom with a particular look at the contrast between righteousness and wickedness. 

1. Read verse 1. Scales were used in bible times for buying and selling. A person would for instance buy a bag of apples. The apples would be put on the scale and weighed and then the customer would pay the purchase price. Sometimes however, merchants would rig their scales so that they reported that things were heavier than they actually were. So dishonest scales is a symbol of dishonest business and financial dealings. Take a look at your own work and business dealings. Are they honoring to the Lord? Do you compromise when business is not profitable? 

2. In verses 3-11 highlight all the uses of the word “righteous” and “upright”. There are two kinds of righteousness in the Bible. Practical righteousness, doing things right before God, and positional righteousness, having a right standing before God. When a person is forgiven by God and out of love for God living His way, that person enjoys great blessings. List the benefits of the righteous in these verses. How does the life of the wicked contrast? 

3. Look at verse 13. Gossip is a terrible sin, but being trustworthy is a great blessing to those who call you their friend. Can you be trusted with a secret? Are you quick to want to tell someone, or are you committed to keeping the confidence of those who trust you? 

4. Read verse 14. When we are not open to counsel, we are in danger. But when we seek out wise counsel it provides great safety. Now read Psalm 119:24, and Isaiah 9:6. Who is our greatest counselor? 

5. In verse 17 we see who is most benefited and harmed by our wisdom or lack of. Who is it? 

6. In verse 22 we see a ridiculous picture. A pig with a gold ring in his nose. God likens this to an outwardly beautiful woman, without any discretion or inward beauty. Read 1 Peter 3:3-4. We spend time in front of the mirror every day. We must learn to look into the mirror of God’s word to see the invisible state of our soul. 

7. Verses 24-28 have some things to say about generosity and wealth. Do any of these apply to your life right now – in other words are you doing them? 

8. Look at verse 30. A mark of wisdom is winning a soul, which is through your witness and your words leading others to Christ. Read Daniel 12:3. Have you ever had this privilege? Would you like to? Ask God for boldness and opportunity to do so! 

Old Testament:
Amos 4- Prepared
Amos 5- When Lions Attack
Amos 6- Who’s To Blame

Proverbs 10:23
“To do evil is like sport to a fool, but a man of understanding has wisdom.”

While Jesus hung on the cross paying for the sins of humanity, paving the way for man to have fellowship with God, and giving entrance to heaven, we are told a group of soldiers were gambling for His clothing. The most important event in the history of humanity is unfolding, and these men are playing games at the foot of the cross. Sadly, their behavior is all too common among people today. Many, instead of taking seriously their need for Christ, are playing around with sin and treating it like sport. Even among believers this behavior is all too familiar. There are many Christians who seem to live for the adrenaline rush they receive, by getting as close to sin as possible, while not falling completely into it. That, my friend, is a dangerous game. Solomon wrote,

Proverbs 6:27-28
“Can a man take fire to his bosom,
And his clothes not be burned?
Can one walk on hot coals, And his feet not be seared?” 

Toying around with, and living on the edge of sin, is a very dangerous game. It will not be long before you find you have taken one step too many and fallen hard. For many, once that line is crossed, it is very difficult to be restored. Sin gets its teeth in us, and like a pit bull, is unwilling to let go. The secret to success, is to stay away from the fences. Don’t live as close to sinning as you can, but as far away as possible.

I had a good friend who had a substance abuse problem. He was doing his best to walk with the Lord, and stay away from former habits. He knew, he not only had to make investments in his walk with the Lord, but he also had to avoid his old stomping grounds. He even had to choose new routes home from work, because the way he traveled in the past took him right through the neighborhood where he would purchase drugs. After months of doing well, staying clean, and growing in Christ, he thought he was strong enough to handle it, and decided to take a short cut home. His path took him right by his dealers place. Before he knew it, he had parked the car, entered the home, purchased drugs, and fell hard. It was over a week later when I heard from him. He had been on a binge and had finally come down. Broken, hurting, filled with self-loathing, and fearing what was ahead, he told me the details of his story.

His story is not an isolated case. If we are honest, we all have stories of toying with sin and falling. Our landing may not have been as hard as his, but sin has had a devastating effect upon us, and those to whom we are seeking to be a godly witness. It is folly to think we can gamble with sin and not lose. If you have been treating sin like sport, it is time to retire. Whatever has been leading you to the edge, remove it from your life, and draw as close to Christ as you can. Paul told Timothy to flee youthful lusts (2 Timothy 2:22) and Joseph took this so seriously he ran from Potiphar’s house leaving his clothes behind (Genesis 39:12).

Pastor Jim

Questions for Proverbs 10 
Up until this point in the book of Proverbs, there has been a theme to the early chapters: God’s Wisdom is painted in a beautiful light, and the person who pursues wisdom is viewed with great favor by God. From this chapter forward the book changes, as most of the book is comprised of short proverbs that are often unrelated to the one before or after. Also, each proverb tends to say two things that illustrate one another. These proverbs can cover a very wide range of application even from verse to verse. 
1. Righteousness is contrasted with wickedness in many of these verses (2, 3, 6, 7, 11, 16, 20, 21, 24, 25, 28, 29, 30, 31, and 32). Read through these verses. Make a list of all of the advantages of the righteous. Now make a list of all of the consequences that the wicked must face. Which list do you want for yourself? 

2. Verses 1 and 5 mention a “wise son”. What impact does the wise son have on his parents? How is your relationship with your parents? Pursuing God and following His instructions for loving them is the greatest things that you can do to honor them. 

3. Look at verse 8. We are naturally prone to not want to have others tell us what to do. The problem is that it is right for us to submit to the authorities that God has put over us. Do you have a good attitude toward the authorities in your life? 

4. Look at verse 11, 13, 19, 20, 21, 31, 32. What is the speech of a righteous person likened to? How does it contrast with the words of the wicked? Take time to consider your own words. Is your mouth a blessing? 

5. Verse 12 reveals a wonderful truth. This verse is later quoted in 1 Peter 4:8. Think about the people you love: do you seek to cover/forgive/show grace concerning their sin? Or are you quick to fight? Ask God to pour His love into your heart to help you. 

6. Look at verse 22. When the Lord blesses a person’s life, there is no hidden cost to the blessing. Certainly we must count the cost in following Jesus, but that is all in the open and Jesus has been plain about it. The devil on the other hand, never tells what the cost will be for doing things his way. Consider this verse carefully. There is no downside! Pursue the blessing of the Lord in your own life! 

Old Testament:
Amos 1- Shepherd Or Butcher
Amos 3- Walking Together

Proverbs 9:11
“For by me your days will be multiplied, and years of life will be added to you.”

Jesus promised, those who believe in Him would be the recipients of eternal life. He also promised we would have abundant life while we live.

John wrote in 1 John 5:12, “He who has the Son has life; he who does not have the Son of God does not have life.” 

We will never experience the abundant life God intends for us, until we first receive Christ and begin to walk with Him. Scripture promises the love of God will flood our hearts, the peace of God will guard our minds, and the life of God will well up within us like a fountain, flowing out upon others around us. Once we receive Christ, we begin to experience the abundant grace of God flowing into our lives. Paul knew this kind of life, and it enabled him to celebrate the Lord, even in the most difficult situations.

There are, however, many Christians who are failing to experience abundant life. They seem to be constantly downtrodden and defeated. In some cases, it may be a result of failing to choose the path of wisdom. Solomon explains that true wisdom has, as its goal, a desire to live pleasing to the Lord. When we walk that road (when all decisions are filtered through a desire to do what is right in the eyes of God), we will find “our days are multiplied and years of life are added.” Things are simply better when we follow the Lord and do it His way. So often, our will fights against the will of God. When we resist Him, we fail to see that His desires are best for us. The height of life is always reached when we surrender all to Christ, and live in obedience to His Word.

Let’s commit together to begin each day by offering ourselves to the Lord, and looking at our circumstances in the light of Scripture. Begin each day this week by dedicating yourself to Him, praying for the things you are facing, and reading His Word. End each day by examining your actions in light of the Lord and His Word. Let’s see how far He can take us down the road of abundant life.

Pastor Jim

Question for Proverbs 9 
Wisdom continues in this chapter to be personified as a gracious woman. 
1. Read verses 1-6. Notice the tremendous hospitality to strangers. This paints a picture that God is welcoming to those without wisdom who are seeking it. Read James 1:5. When you lack wisdom do you go to God and His word and ask for wisdom? 

2. Read verses 7-9. A contrast is being made between the scoffer and the wise man in these verses. How does the scoffer respond to correction? How does a wise man respond? 

3. All scoffers are foolish, but not all fools are scoffers. When we are humble concerning our foolishness and seek the Lord, He responds graciously. When we cross the line and begin to scoff at the things of the Lord, then God leaves us to the consequences of our sin, and lets us learn the hard way. Read Romans 1:18-32 to see an example of this. Is there anyone in your life that you need to simply pray for and stop speaking about the things of God to? What about you? Do you receive correction? 

4. Read verse 10. What two things are the foundation for wisdom? Read Col 2:1-3. The “fear of the Lord” simply means to care about what God thinks more than anything else (see Proverbs 14:27, 19:23, 22:4). The “fear of man” is caring mostly about what people think of you (see Proverbs 29:25). Keep your relationship with Jesus central, and stay in His word and you will become wise! 

5. According to verse 12, who is the ultimate beneficiary of wisdom? Who is the one who must face the consequences of foolishness (ignoring God’s wisdom)? Although our wisdom (or lack of it) will certainly affect others, we are the ones who have the most to gain or lose in our own lives by our attitude concerning wisdom. 

6. In verses 13-18, we see that the foolish woman is also hospitable to strangers, just like Wisdom in the beginning of the chapter. However, what are the net results of responding to her? Read Proverbs 16:25, and 1 Corinthians 3:18-20.

Old Testament:
Joel 1- Unattended Children
Joel 2- Turn To Me
Joel 3- Looking Ahead